How can my three year old be a part of my wedding but not be a flower girl?

Could her and I walk down the aisle? Could my Dad give us both away? Any suggestions? The groom is not her father.

How can my three year old be a part of my wedding but not be a flower girl?
I think that would be lovely. After all he's getting both of you.
Reply:If you have a train on your gown she could be what is called a page. She can carry the back of your train as you walk down the isle. My theree year old son did this for for sister in law and made every one say awe thats cute... Just be sure some one in the front row is appointed to help her when it comes time to release the train and take a seat.
Reply:I don't see why she couldn't walk down the aisle with you. Maybe she could even carry the ring. It's your day (and your husband-to-be's, of course) so it should go the way you wish it to.
Reply:She could walk down the aisle with the rings on a pillow
Reply:This is a great question one in which I certainly would love to answer. When I married my husband, 28 yrs now, my youngest was 4. She walked down the aisle with her 2 older sisters and I made all them bridesmaid, and she was called "little miss Jr bridesmaid" She was so proud that she could be a part of it. She had a hard time containing her excitement. I gave her the option to walk down with me, or be with her sisters. She was the first one to walk and I made it from youngest on up. It was so cute to see her walk down that aisle like she owned the church for a few minutes. Now, to me, that was a time never to be forgotten. She felt like she was really a part of it all, and she was of course. I think your idea is also wonderful..When children feel part of an important event, it is a wonderful memory for them and they will always be grateful that you made it so personal for her. Just like it is her day too. Congratulations. I think you must be a wonderful mom.
Reply:It's your wedding, you can have her do whatever you want her to do in the wedding.
Reply:Aw, that is such a sweet idea. It's lovely - and such a warm gesture. Have her walk with you. It will be something you will both be able to look back on and feel good about.
Reply:yes walk with you , let her carry a cute little basket with flowers too, even shes not the flower girl , congrats
Reply:Have a 'making us a family ceremony'


where you all join hands and vow to love and care for each other...or you can each add a flower to a bouquet, ...or you can have 3 unity candles....or you can have three doing a sand ceremony....


possibilities are endless.
Reply:I love the idea of dad giving both of you away.
Reply:Before I even read your full question, I was thinking exactly what you said!! Have her walk with you, and have your dad give you both away. That is a fantastic idea. Hope your day is beautiful!
Reply:Have you considered a family medallion ceremony. They are really becoming popular for couples where one or both has children from a previous relationship. It is a simple ceremony done after you recite your vows. You present a family medallion to your husband and he places it around your daughter's neck. Each medallion comes with wording for the ceremony.
Reply:I like the idea of Dad giving away daughter and granddaughter. Make her a Jr. Bride. One thing I would suggest, if she wants to sit next to you at the bridal table to eat, let her. I know of one situation where the son wanted to sit next to his mother, and she wouldn't let him. I thought that was mean, considering the changes he was going thru by getting a stepdad, and having to share his mother with someone else when he was used to just him and mom.
Reply:Junior Bridesmaid and she could stand with you and husband to be during ceremony. Make her part of the "new" family.
Reply:Yes, she could be a miniature bride and walk right along with you.
Reply:Hi baby what's up sweetie it's da diva here and to answer your question dear you 3 year old can either walk down the aisle in front of you in your father, your father can hold her and you walk next to your father and hold his hands, and last but not least my last option you can have your 3 yeas old to see behind you and she can sit on your long nice gown as you walk you can drag her . lol I know just kidding on my last option. well got to go sweeetie love ya smootches da diva.* I wish you luck on your wedding day ohh and don't worry you're going to be a very bueatiful bride.*
Reply:yes maybe your dad could give you both to the groom to symbolise that the three of u is a family now. Have her give you the rings as well. hey that's so sweet! congratulations